Wednesday, September 9, 2020
Meet Stella, the cat formally known as Taylor.
Tuesday, September 1, 2020
Lucy...the life, the laughs, the legend.
There were several occasions when I attempted to compose a blog entry to celebrate the life of Lucy, our 18-year-old and six-year traveling companion. Each time I sat at the keyboard my chest would tighten, my eyes would well with tears, and I’d shut down the program to try again another day.
Well, another day has arrived and instead of writing a sad, tear-jerking account of our 17 years together, I decided to just share some funny stories and photos of the cat who was lucky enough to be literally dumped on me when I was not looking for a pet.
It began in May of 2003 when I agreed to babysit a young cat who was being abused. It was supposed to be for just six weeks, but events I won't bother to expand upon extended her stay to 17 years.
She was almost one-year old when she arrived. I had never had a cat as a pet before, so what was to follow was going to be a new adventure for us both. For the first two weeks, she would not allow me to "see" her. She hid under the stove whenever I was home and ventured out only when I went to work or slept. I knew she was alive from the evidence of food eaten and the presents she left me in the litter pan. It was going to take some planning and engineering for me to catch her out in the open and then block her entrance under the stove. I didn't want her hiding under there because I was unable to use the oven or broiler with her beneath the burner (old stove folks) I needed to outsmart her at her own game.
My plan involved obtaining a large section of cardboard that I cut and folded into a tall, L-shape and had it at the ready to shove into place once I caught her unaware. The day finally came when I arrived home early and there she was – in the hallway! She would have needed to run past me to get under the stove, but I was able to quickly get that cardboard in place and block her hiding spot.
Her eyes were as big as saucers, scared of me and this new place we both did not yet know was to be OUR home. She ran and hid under the chair, then under the bed, behind the radiator and finally under my dresser. I just let her be to adjust to this large and scary studio apartment.
I continued to feed her, scoop poop and talk to her as if she were an invisible baby. I made no outward attempts at being friends. She avoided me and I avoided her - afraid she might bite me. I figured this was only going to be for six weeks anyway; I could manage that!
It took another
couple of weeks for her to overcome some of her fear when she jumped up on my bed late one night and slowly crawled up onto my chest.
She was just an inch from my face, my breath (when I was not holding it) was
directly in her face. I remember prayers floating through my head, “Please God,
don’t let her bite my face. Please God, don’t let her bite my face.” I must
have repeated it a dozen times until I felt a little rumble on my chest as the
sweet sound of a purr began to emit from this elusive cat. I eventually relaxed and believed my face was safe from getting bitten. I did not dare touch her. I was just grateful my prayer was
answered.
The next evening, the same procedure occurred. This time, I slowly brought my hand up and stroked her fur and the purr got louder. I scratched under her chin and I thought there was a motorboat on my chest instead of a little cat.
Her original name was "Monroe" after Marilyn Monroe due to a black mark near her nose. I decided she was NOT a “Monroe,” so by the seventh week into my six-week babysitting stint, I booked an appointment with a vet and found out she was just a year old, an "American Short Hair/Tuxedo,"and was NOT altered.
Once home and watching her recover from her surgery and paying a hefty vet bill, I declared myself entitled to change her name, I came up with a couple: Lucy, Gracie and Rosie. I ended up choosing Rosie. Funny thing though, was that every day when I came home from work, I would mimic Ricky Ricardo. from "I Love Lucy," and exclaim, “Lucy, I’m home!” My continuing to call out that greeting, caused her name to officially become Lucy.
Some of the little nicknames I had for Lucy, depending upon the situation were: Mommy's baby, Mommy's Girl, Lucifer, Missy Miss, Miss Priss and Mommy's sweatheart.
The saying, “You don’t know what you’ve got ‘til it’s gone,” was only partially true, because I knew I had an amazingly smart and incredible cat. She was not destructive, she never bit anyone in her entire lifetime, she was every vet’s dream, and she never tried to escape the motor homes. She never flinched, fought or scratched while having any procedure performed. Basically, she was a scare-dy-cat, full of love, mostly just for her mommy and daddy. She received so much from us that she didn’t need it from others. She tolerated few people, among them, Meema Too and Uncle Charlie.
I knew that once she was gone, I would never have a cat that could come
close to filling the emotional bond we had, or be as great an RV traveler as she, yet I knew I would, eventually, long for another companion to fill that furry hole in my heart.
Throughout our full-time cross-country travels, we indicate the states we visit on a US map on our door. I was planning to put another one up to indicate all the states where Lucy had visited a veterinarian. They are listed throughout my blog, but off the top of my head, she visited one as far west as Coastal Oregon, as far east as Mystic, CT, as far north as Glenns Falls, NY and as far south as the Orlando area in Fl. I kept perfect health records that each vet appreciated having for reference. Lucy visited 32 states, saw three of the Great Lakes, the Pacific, Atlantic and Gulf of Mexico and even stayed on Disney World Property.
Her
traveling routine consisted of crawling into her open carry bag and staying
there most of the trip. She came out to sit by us or eat, drink and even use
the litter pan. She mastered how to do all those things at speeds up to 70 MPH. Watching her walk from the front to the back of the
RV while on a major thoroughfare was comedic as she braced herself to match the
sway of the RV. She would have made a terrific airline stewardess. At the end
of each day on the road, we were all “home” and happily sharing "lap" time.
I had over 1,800 photos of Lucy, so in order not to bore you, I tried to narrow it down to some of my favorites that depicted her serenity, beauty and funny personality.
Lucy went deaf in her last couple of years, yet she was intelligent enough to learn the sign language I had researched and taught her. I was excited with each sign she mastered, but the best was the “I love you” sign, because I really needed to communicate that every day.
Our last journey was a short one. Just about 7 miles, but as sad as it was to say goodbye to our sweet Lucy, I am happy she left us with so many funny and loving moments to cherish. A simple twist of fate back in 2003 made life for the three of us far better than it could ever have been imagined. Some moments of sadness remain, but no regrets.
Lucy Lu - June 2002-May 2020
Monday, April 13, 2020
LIFE: racing past and then suddenly in slow motion
Things began to slowly improve in January and then mid-February found George with a nasty head cold. Since being in Florida, we've missed celebrating Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, New Year's Eve and then Valentin'es Day flew out the window.
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Dinner out with some of the Hudson Islanders, sans George. Starting on the left side and up like a “u” we are: Walt and Fran, me and Charlie, Tony and Doreen and Kathy and Ray. |
A deadly wolf in sheep's clothing. |
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Finally, a holiday meal where I wasn't in the hospital! |
A perfect break in he global crisis found us quietly celebrating Easter with a home-cooked dinner. Here we had many friends around, food to eat, but we all ate separately.
Deep thought for the day: Be sure to stop and look when you smell the roses. Don't run by too fast. Experiencing them using both senses envelops you with their true magnificence. Life is kinda that way too.
Friday, April 3, 2020
A December to Remember
I had a method to that madness of proceeding with the surgery, because one year ago I had booked a week in Key West at Blue Water Key Resort and I needed a 15-week recuperation window. The week delay was now cutting into my timeline.
Good friends had lent me a wheelchair, but entering the RV was a tremendous challenge. One that caused me to almost re-break the broken toe! Neighbors far and wide heard my scream. Weeks later, a woman came up to me while I was sitting outside and she said, "Oh, you're the poor woman who screamed." I guess stuff like that gets around fast in a small community.
My original diagnosis in the ER was a lot of fluid in and around my lungs. I heard doctors saying, "congestive heart failure," "possible heart attack" and "thrombosis." I remember not feeling panic at this point, just a feeling that I wanted to go to sleep and wake up from a bad dream. I was weak, tired and in pain.
Prior to being discharged, my mind raced with options and fortunately, I remembered that our friends owned a house nearby and had a spare room. After a quick call, we found out there was "room at the inn" on Christmas Eve for all of us, including Lucy. As it turned out, we had their whole home to ourselves since they were out of town. To make things even easier, we had a key to their home.
Throughout the entire medical issue, I hadn't cried once, however, as George wheeled me into their home, tears of gratitude slid down my cheeks. I was overwhelmed by the situation and the bag full of new medications we had just picked up from the pharmacy, but also feeling so blessed to have friends who moved a huge obstacle out of our way.
Someone thought this was a special chair just for her. |
It wasn't.
I'll skip the unpleasant details, but I ended up heading back to Celebration Hospital by ambulance. This visit was a six day stint consisting of a battery of tests for gastric issues. The cause of this new problem was due to all the antibiotics and additional pain medications that I had been ingesting since the end of November. It wreaked a bit of havoc on my insides.
We ended 2019 with hope and prayers that 2020 was going to be a terrific year. After all we had been through, how could it get any worse?
Meanwhile, as we were hoping and praying, Wuhan, China was to become a place that would go down in history as the epicenter of "COVID-19." Not until March 11th was it officially labeled "a pandemic" and people started to pay attention. Unfortunately, it would take thousands of deaths before most people started to take it seriously.
My next blog entry will document, at least for my future reference, what it is like living in 2020 with a compromised immune system during a pandemic.
Deep thought for the day: "Good morning, good morning! It's time to celebrate! Good morning, good morning to you!"
This song's music was composed by Nacio Herb Brown and lyrics written by Arthur Freed, for the 1939 film, Babes in Arms. It was performed by Judy Garland and Mickey Rooney.
This is the song I sang to my boys as they grew up and now, I sing it to my husband. All three hate/hated it, or perhaps just my rendition. I'm not sure which, but I do know that I loved and still love singing it, because it's always a "good morning" when we wake up, have a place to live, clothes to wear, food to eat and love to give and receive... So, good morning, good morning to you! ~ vc
Thursday, April 2, 2020
Ketchup post. Lots of catch up.
Savannah with 2 sets of grandparents! |
Even a rainbow to celebrate a special girl! Good grief, Charlie Brown, she will be taller than me before next birthday! |
We don't often get to spend birthdays, watch plays or musical or dance performances with them, so anytime we visit is special and was worth the risk of extra insulin and running "high."
My fire cracker getting ready to break her chocolate pinata! |
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Love this one with sisters holding hands. |
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Lola looking happy and beautiful. |
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Nina enjoying watching the boys stare at her. |
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Me with three of my five precious girls on Cousins Aaron's and Karen's boat. |
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Confident and a cutie, Emma with Uncle Gregg. |
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A sunset from the balcony of the condo at St. Pete Beach, FL |
Boston Market Turkey Dinner |
I ended the month of November sneezing, coughing and miserable, but I had already finished my Christmas shopping on-line, had it all wrapped, boxed up and ready to ship out by December 1st. I tend to always be a step ahead, just in case!
Valentine Card Boxes for Lola and... |
Emma. Early, but promised last April. |
Almost forgot to include my new car! |
Decided to buy after leasing two prior to this one. |
George and I decided that December would be better. Bunion surgery, that was originally scheduled for the 3rd needed to be rescheduled to the 10th so I could recuperate from the sinus infection. After that I'd be spending the rest of the the year just resting and healing. Poor George would have the honor of being my caretaker. Life (as we knew it) was good.
Lucy, feeling bummed out after realizing we didn't have apple pie for dessert on Turkey Day! |
Deep thought for the day: "Go ahead an make all your plans you like, but never forget that we are just pawns on the chess board of life." ~ vc
While this was written after the outbreak of the COVID-19 Pandemic, I had too much information to document leading up to this devastating time in history. Once we hit my "surgery" date, the story gets even more complicated before we reach the point of "LIFE AS WE KNEW IT."
Wednesday, September 4, 2019
Last, but not least, Rhode Island
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Photo courtesy of ACR
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Charlie's site was right next to theirs and was eerily tucked almost on top of a small cemetery. There were less than a dozen stones that were difficult to read, but we did make out one dated 1776. I wonder who Charlie was parked on top of? I'm not sure I could have slept there and we never ended up eating dinner at his site either.
Paradise School |
Bowman's Wharf |
George had his eye on that big baby in the background. It was navy blue and white. |
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Tricia and her date for the day. Craig's fav football team was playing. |
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Me and my date. |
Photo courtesy of ACR |
My name and the word "crown" go together so naturally; don't you think? |
No bathing suits, thankfully, just a great "Destination Dinner." |
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A most enjoyable dinner on the beach. |
A view of the beach and cove. |
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Always a friendly person offering to snap a photo |
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Capturing the sun setting on our new Jeep Wrangler. Dis be MY photo. |
Waiting on line before we realized we could just make a reservation for a table. Photo courtesy ACR |
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The vines |
Courtesy of ACR - my "Beer Flight" |
Photo courtesy ACR - The interesting cheeses that paired so well with the different beers. Ah-ma-zing. |
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Happy for the month to be over. She had a rough time, but she carried on like a trooper. |
Charlie, AKA ACR, also writes a blog and you can compare his notes to mine as he went into much more detail, especially with our trolley tour, sights and food. You can read his version of the day HERE!